Before you seek advice on your relationship

In short, I would like to tell you that, It’s impossible for people to truly know all the details.

People have their own issues to deal with that you may not even know about, and this may color their opinion.

People do not have as much invested in the relationship as you do, so they won’t give their advice as much thought as you would hope.

People may say what they think you want to hear.

People values may be different to yours.

People who don’t value their relationship won’t probably advice you to value yours.



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